How to deal with dating a married man
You know what true love is, and you also know that if the married man really loved you…he’d be with you every night. You question yourself: “What if he really is different?He’d leave his wife for you instead of lying to you, lying to her, lying to his children, and lying to himself. ” “What if my married man’s excuses are actually valid?I didn’t think anyone would read it because I thought it’d be easy to not cheat! Recently I’ve had some very honest conversations with my friends about dating married men, and I’ve realized that affairs are more common than I realize.But no matter how common it is to fall in love with and date a married man, it is degrading, dishonest, and disappointing.I also share encouragement from a woman who broke up with a married husband; it hurt her to walk away from him, but she’s happy and healthy now.This married man feels like to meet the most beautiful, perfect man for you.I admit I miss his company and the way he looked at me and the way he touched me. Looking back I realize how toxic it was to sit at home on holidays while he was with his family, and only see him when he was available.We never showed affection in public, and we could never spend time with friends as a couple.” A few years ago, I wrote an article called How to Stop Cheating in a Relationship.
He said he was going to leave his wife, but he never did.
The affair will never go anywhere, and it’s not true love.
True love means you can introduce the man you love to your family and friends.
Or maybe deep down you secretly enjoy the secrecy and lies, dishonesty and pain of having an affair with a married man.
But you’re here because you want to be free of the guilt, shame, and self-loathing that accompanies cheating with another woman’s husband.